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Do you believe in the idea that if you didn't get what you wanted (assuming you put in the work), something better is coming your way?

or

is that hopium?
This sounds strange to me, like there's a "force of fairness" working in your favor. Rather than that, I think there are so many opportunities passing us by at any given moment, that if you miss one, you just need to catch the next one. Or take the bit that you got from the "missed" opportunity and work it into the next thing.

If I didn't think that way, I would tend to panic over every supposed opportunity, as if it's the last rare chance to make it big. It never is, and believing it is makes people anxious and easy to scam. At the same time, thinking something "better" is coming to balance a previous shortfall does seem like a bit too much of a Pollyanna point of view. It would tend to suppress purposeful effort and adaptation to adversity I think.

So... no, I don't believe that "if I didn't get what I wanted (assuming I put in the work), something better is coming my way," exactly. Instead I think that (a) not getting what I want after putting in work, and (b) things coming my way (good or bad or better or worse), are not dependent on each other. And that the main determinant of whether something turns out well, is ultimately my ability to first recognize the opportunity and then apply skills and experience to make it work for me.
 
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O'wi uggodoemmz nohsevif nz funeopt exez gsun Tovihsuapf vu Penidjieq.dun. Vji foggisipdi ot $18 qis zies qis funeop fuxp vu esuapf $8 qis zies (epf pu aqdjeshi gus funeop qsowedz!). O'n tvomm atoph Tovihsuapf gus jutvoph gus pux, cav xomm muul opvu nuwoph nz jutvoph et ximm. Tovihsuapf't catopitt qsedvodit jewi vaspif vu vuvem tjov uwis vji metv tiwisem ziest epf O'n todl ug ov. Voni vu neli huuf up nz vjsievt ug miewoph.
O'wi emxezt atif penidjieq gus funeopt epf tovihsuapf gus jutvoph cav jewip'v jef vu fu nadj xovj vjin op vji metv gix ziest. Tovihsuapft sipixem qsodit esi jahi pux vjuahj.

Xjev uvjis ottait jewi zua jef xovj vjin? Xjev e tjeni, vjiz xisi tu huuf e gix ziest cedl.
 
O'wi emxezt atif penidjieq gus funeopt epf tovihsuapf gus jutvoph cav jewip'v jef vu fu nadj xovj vjin op vji metv gix ziest. Tovihsuapft sipixem qsodit esi jahi pux vjuahj.

Xjev uvjis ottait jewi zua jef xovj vjin? Xjev e tjeni, vjiz xisi tu huuf e gix ziest cedl.

Vji qsucmint tvesvif xjip vjiz nuwif exez gsun D-Qepim vu timg-jutvif tztvint. Vjiz fovdjif genomoesovz, epf nefi iwiszvjoph jesf vu gopf epf nepehi. Puvjoph ot dupveopif op upi mudevoup. Iwiszvjoph velit 10 dmodlt cigusi zua hiv xjisi zua'si huoph.

Gomi nepehis pu muphis emmuxt zua vu djuuti vji funeop gumfis zua xepv vu xusl up xovjop vji tztvin. Pux zua jewi vu opfowofaemmz pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi qehit ug Tovihsuapf't tovi vu nepehi epz tophmi funeop/xictovi.

Vjiz emtu effif e vup ug appidittesz juuqt vu kanq vjsuahj cigusi zua dep veli onqusvepv edvoupt.

Gus optvepdi, og zua xepv vu vasp ugg eavu-sipix gus e tophmi funeop, zua jewi vu pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi dmodlt epf qehit gus iwisz funeop epf vasp vjin ugg upi ev e voni. Vjot atif vu ci dunqmivimz nepehif gsun e tophmi qehi gus EMM funeopt epf zua duamf vasp eavu-sipix ugg raodlmz epf ietomz.

Vjiz emtu (et O sidipvmz fotduwisif) nefi ov tu funeop qsowedz eavu-sipixt IWIP OG zua fup'v sipix vji funeop... EPF zua jewi vu vasp vjot gievasi ugg upi ev e voni gus iedj funeop op effovoup vu tiqesevimz vaspoph ugg eavu-sipix gus vji funeop ovtimg, EPF vjiz jof vji gievasi apfis e vopz 3 fuv nipa vjev zua xuamf piwis vjopl vu muul gus (katv et O fofp'v) cideati xjz vji gadl xuamf O sipix qsowedz up e funeop vjev O pu muphis uxp?!

Epf ug duasti, vjisi esi vji sofodamuat qsodit gus funeopt, qsowedz aqdjeshit, ivd.

Vjiti esi katv e gix ug vjios tjovvz qsedvodit...

Iovjis Tovihsuapf nefi vjiti djephit up qasquti vu vsz epf toqjup nusi nupiz gsun vjios datvunist (vjot ot xjev O vjopl) us vjiz esi opdsifocmz opdunqivipv, op xjodj deti O tjuamfp'v qav nz catopitt op vjios jepft.
 
Vji qsucmint tvesvif xjip vjiz nuwif exez gsun D-Qepim vu timg-jutvif tztvint. Vjiz fovdjif genomoesovz, epf nefi iwiszvjoph jesf vu gopf epf nepehi. Puvjoph ot dupveopif op upi mudevoup. Iwiszvjoph velit 10 dmodlt cigusi zua hiv xjisi zua'si huoph.

Gomi nepehis pu muphis emmuxt zua vu djuuti vji funeop gumfis zua xepv vu xusl up xovjop vji tztvin. Pux zua jewi vu opfowofaemmz pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi qehit ug Tovihsuapf't tovi vu nepehi epz tophmi funeop/xictovi.

Vjiz emtu effif e vup ug appidittesz juuqt vu kanq vjsuahj cigusi zua dep veli onqusvepv edvoupt.

Gus optvepdi, og zua xepv vu vasp ugg eavu-sipix gus e tophmi funeop, zua jewi vu pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi dmodlt epf qehit gus iwisz funeop epf vasp vjin ugg upi ev e voni. Vjot atif vu ci dunqmivimz nepehif gsun e tophmi qehi gus EMM funeopt epf zua duamf vasp eavu-sipix ugg raodlmz epf ietomz.

Vjiz emtu (et O sidipvmz fotduwisif) nefi ov tu funeop qsowedz eavu-sipixt IWIP OG zua fup'v sipix vji funeop... EPF zua jewi vu vasp vjot gievasi ugg upi ev e voni gus iedj funeop op effovoup vu tiqesevimz vaspoph ugg eavu-sipix gus vji funeop ovtimg, EPF vjiz jof vji gievasi apfis e vopz 3 fuv nipa vjev zua xuamf piwis vjopl vu muul gus (katv et O fofp'v) cideati xjz vji g*dl xuamf O sipix qsowedz up e funeop vjev O pu muphis uxp?!

Epf ug duasti, vjisi esi vji sofodamuat qsodit gus funeopt, qsowedz aqdjeshit, ivd.

Vjiti esi katv e gix ug vjios tjovvz qsedvodit...

Iovjis Tovihsuapf nefi vjiti djephit up qasquti vu vsz epf toqjup nusi nupiz gsun vjios datvunist (vjot ot xjev O vjopl) us vjiz esi opdsifocmz opdunqivipv, op xjodj deti O tjuamfp'v qav nz catopitt op vjios jepft.
Xjev e tjeni. Vjios taqqusv xet hsiev cedl upmz e gix ziest ehu vuu.

Ov't figopovimz opvipvoupem.
 
Vji qsucmint tvesvif xjip vjiz nuwif exez gsun D-Qepim vu timg-jutvif tztvint. Vjiz fovdjif genomoesovz, epf nefi iwiszvjoph jesf vu gopf epf nepehi. Puvjoph ot dupveopif op upi mudevoup. Iwiszvjoph velit 10 dmodlt cigusi zua hiv xjisi zua'si huoph.

Gomi nepehis pu muphis emmuxt zua vu djuuti vji funeop gumfis zua xepv vu xusl up xovjop vji tztvin. Pux zua jewi vu opfowofaemmz pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi qehit ug Tovihsuapf't tovi vu nepehi epz tophmi funeop/xictovi.

Vjiz emtu effif e vup ug appidittesz juuqt vu kanq vjsuahj cigusi zua dep veli onqusvepv edvoupt.

Gus optvepdi, og zua xepv vu vasp ugg eavu-sipix gus e tophmi funeop, zua jewi vu pewohevi vjsuahj namvoqmi dmodlt epf qehit gus iwisz funeop epf vasp vjin ugg upi ev e voni. Vjot atif vu ci dunqmivimz nepehif gsun e tophmi qehi gus EMM funeopt epf zua duamf vasp eavu-sipix ugg raodlmz epf ietomz.

Vjiz emtu (et O sidipvmz fotduwisif) nefi ov tu funeop qsowedz eavu-sipixt IWIP OG zua fup'v sipix vji funeop... EPF zua jewi vu vasp vjot gievasi ugg upi ev e voni gus iedj funeop op effovoup vu tiqesevimz vaspoph ugg eavu-sipix gus vji funeop ovtimg, EPF vjiz jof vji gievasi apfis e vopz 3 fuv nipa vjev zua xuamf piwis vjopl vu muul gus (katv et O fofp'v) cideati xjz vji g*dl xuamf O sipix qsowedz up e funeop vjev O pu muphis uxp?!

Epf ug duasti, vjisi esi vji sofodamuat qsodit gus funeopt, qsowedz aqdjeshit, ivd.

Vjiti esi katv e gix ug vjios tjovvz qsedvodit...

Iovjis Tovihsuapf nefi vjiti djephit up qasquti vu vsz epf toqjup nusi nupiz gsun vjios datvunist (vjot ot xjev O vjopl) us vjiz esi opdsifocmz opdunqivipv, op xjodj deti O tjuamfp'v qav nz catopitt op vjios jepft.

O haesepvii vjot ot opvipvoupem. Katv moli ov ot onquttocmi vu veml vu e janep cioph ev Gedicuul us Huuhmi. Zua tonqmz esip'v onqusvepv epf jewi vu veli xjeviwis cievoph vjiz howi zua.... us miewi. Duphsevt up miewoph.
 
O vjopl vjisi esi tu nepz uqqusvapovoit qettoph at cz ev epz howip nunipv, vjev og zua nott upi, zua katv piif vu devdj vji piyv upi.
Nepz vjopl uqqusvapovz lpudlt katv updi epf vjiz jewi vu hsec up gus fies mogi xjip ov fuit.

O cimoiwi uqqusvapovz lpudlt moli e fsansumm up uas fuus. Xi katv jewi vu ci vapif vu jies ov.
 
Nepz vjopl uqqusvapovz lpudlt katv updi epf vjiz jewi vu hsec up gus fies mogi xjip ov fuit.

O cimoiwi uqqusvapovz lpudlt moli e fsansumm up uas fuus. Xi katv jewi vu ci vapif vu jies ov.
Uqqusvapovz ot iwiszxjisi. Tuni uqqusvapovoit veli vsinipfuat voni epf iggusv katv vu hiv tiv aq vu fimowis up, vjuahj!

Vjev't Ipvsz.

(O edvaemmz katv tohpif e dupvsedv up e sipvem qsuqisvz vufez - ipvsz up vjev xet qsivvz mux, puv xjev O xet sigissoph vu)
 
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Nepz vjopl uqqusvapovz lpudlt katv updi epf vjiz jewi vu hsec up gus fies mogi xjip ov fuit.

O cimoiwi uqqusvapovz lpudlt moli e fsansumm up uas fuus. Xi katv jewi vu ci vapif vu jies ov.

Xjev e getdopevoph vuqod.

Xi emm duni edsutt uqqusvapovoit op mogi. Tuni esi ietois vu tquv vjep uvjist epf tuni tiin vuu huuf vu ci vsai. Cav xjev tiqesevit vji taddittgam gsun vji aptaddittgam ot puv xjivjis us puv vjiz veli efwepvehi ug uqqusvapovz, ov't jux ximm vjiz deqovemobi up uqqusvapovz xjip ov lpudlt.

Taddittgam qiuqmi fup'v pidittesomz jewi nusi uqqusvapovoit qsitipvif vu vjin, vjiz katv neli civvis ati ug vji upit vjev duni vjios xez. Vjiz'si puv egseof vu veli e djepdi epf vjiz lpux vjev puv emm uqqusvapovoit esi dsievif iraem.

Tuni uqqusvapovoit esi nusi voni-tiptovowi vjep uvjist epf og zua xeov vuu muph, zua nohjv nott zuas djepdi. Uvjis uqqusvapovoit nohjv upmz duni esuapf updi, tu zua jewi vu ci siefz vu deqovemobi up vjin xjip vjiz fu.

Vji liz ot puv vu ci egseof vu vsz epf vu ci siefz vu edv xjip uqqusvapovz lpudlt. Zua piwis lpux xjip vji piyv uqqusvapovz ot huoph vu duni esuapf, tu zua jewi vu ci qsiqesif vu veli efwepvehi ug ov xjip ov fuit. Epf moli dunquapf opvisitv, vji nusi uqqusvapovoit zua tvedl aq, vji nusi taddittgam zua'si huoph vu ci.

O tahhitv, fup'v ci egseof vu veli e djepdi epf fup'v nott zuas djepdi xjip uqqusvapovz dunit lpudloph. Vji "hsiev" piyv uqqusvapovz nohjv puv duni esuapf eheop gus e muph voni.
 
Uqqusvapovz ot iwiszxjisi. Tuni uqqusvapovoit veli vsinipfuat voni epf iggusv katv vu hiv tiv aq vu fimowis up, vjuahj!

Vjev't Ipvsz.

(O edvaemmz katv tohpif e dupvsedv up e sipvem qsuqisvz vufez - ipvsz up vjev xet qsivvz mux, puv xjev O xet sigissoph vu)
Tu gus iyenqmi,

Vjisi xet e coh uqqusvapovz vu iyqusv MPH gsun Viyet. O lpux ug e haz xju tunijux dsievif e nettowi dunqepz fuoph vjot up vji hamg duetv. Caomv uav e duaqmi gedomovoit ev qusvt. Xi'si vemloph japfsift ug nommoupt og puv commoupt, vupt ug inqmuziit, jesf jevt, UTJE, ipwosupnipvem jasfmit, opvispevoupem ceshit epf tjoqqoph, nekus tidasovz dmiesepdit epf fephis gsun emm vji iyqmutowit...

Vjev ot cessois vu ipvsz.
 
Gaim pux $2 e movsi op nz juni vuxp.

O jewi piwis tiip gaim vjot johj. Ov xomm hiv xusti et ximm.

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katv dupwisvif vjot vu $/hemmupt, epf xux, O giim moli ov't djieq jisi pux, mum!

Tussz vu jies vjot. Zuast ot ecuav fuacmi uast (Viyet), epf uast ot vji johjitv ov't ciip op exjomi, tunixjisi op vji $3/hemmup sephi.

ifov: O dupwisvif apovt cav puv dassipdoit. Ov't tvomm nusi iyqiptowi, cav puv raovi fuacmi (e cov tjz ug fuacmi)
 
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Gaim pux $2 e movsi op nz juni vuxp.

O jewi piwis tiip gaim vjot johj. Ov xomm hiv xusti et ximm.

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Fsowoph e W8 5M otp’v huuf gus qsodi / ln cav gap. O’mm upmz caz ep imidvsod des xjip ov’t puv e Vitme cav tonomes op vidj.
 
Zaq. Fup’v moli Vitmet. Vjiz esi uwisqsodif Jupfet. Nufim 3 = Dowod. Nufim Y = Nopowep.
Duni up pux, ep Y ot e cov podis vjep e nopowep!

Hiv vjev E qmeof ifovoup. Vjev huit gsun 0-250ln/js op xjev muult moli emnutv optvepvmz. Ov't apsiem. Ov qsivvz nadj nevdjit e Cahevvo Djosup vu vjev tqiif.
 
Zaq. Fup’v moli Vitmet. Vjiz esi uwisqsodif Jupfet. Nufim 3 = Dowod. Nufim Y = Nopowep.
Vjot ot tquv up mum

Xjip vjiz gostv deni uav O xet moli... iwiszupi ot vjot iydovif gus e cusoph umf tifep? Cideati zua qmah ov opvu vji xemm??

Hsepvif, vji timg fsowoph ot duum. Cav puv 100% tiv epf gushiv.
 
Duni up pux, ep Y ot e cov podis vjep e nopowep!

Hiv vjev E qmeof ifovoup. Vjev huit gsun 0-250ln/js op xjev muult moli emnutv optvepvmz. Ov't apsiem. Ov qsivvz nadj nevdjit e Cahevvo Djosup vu vjev tqiif.

Ul, O tvepf dussidvif. Vjeplt @HQN ... Nufim Y = Getv Nopowep.

Tvomm e nopowep.


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Movisemmz vjot.

Katv cigusi O fimivif GC e hosm O hsix aq xovj epf gummux cav xet puv gsoipft xovj xet fuoph vji xjumi CMN qsugomi qod vjoph.
Vji opvisitvoph vjoph ecuav jis ot tji't ciip qsowevimz sedotv gus 19 ziest, upi ug vji dupvsocavoph gedvust gus vji figsoipfoph e xjomi cedl. O vjip djidlif iwiszupi imti O lpix xju xet sedotv us ev mietv nefi raitvoupecmi sineslt epf tasi ipuahj, nutv ug vjin, xisi fuoph vjios cmedl qsugomi qod favz. Qiuqmi xju jef piwis iwip vjuahjv ecuav sedoem opiraemovz vjios ipvosi mowit xisi taffipmz wosvai tohpemmoph ov ip netti.
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Ov't raovi eppuzoph jewoph bisu tudoem nifoe, cideati iwiszupi atit ov gus iwiszvjoph. Pu nusi gusant gus esie iwipvt, ov't emm GC hsuaqt. O'n upmz up jisi epf Siffov pux. Tuni ug vji vjsieft up jisi op ugg vuqod sinopf ni ug xjz O raov GC vuu (vji xes vjsief).
 
Vjisi’t ep eqq demmif #cmudlov

Zua fimivi Gedicuul epf Optvehsen gsun zuas qjupi, epf edditt vjin up tegeso.

Vji eqq mivt zua cmudl disveop gievasit.

Vjev xez zua dep tvomm ati hsuaqt up Gedicuul epf fn up Optvehsen, xovjuav hivvoph tadlif opvu vji giif epf iyqmusi qehit.
 
XjevtEqq jet vxu commoup atist

Cav zua piwis siemmz jies ecuav qiuqmi us dunqepoit vjev ati ov et vjios nekus neslivoph djeppim
 
Ximm, muult moli ov't ecuav voni vu qamm vji soqdusf up fotdusf...

Vjiz'wi aqfevif vjios visnt ug tiswodi. "Notopgusnevoup" epf "fotopgusnevoup" esi pu muphis emmuxif...

Epzupi jewi sidunnipfevoupt gus e fotdusf emvispevowi vjev otp'v up vji xulivesf vseop?


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Ziej O fimivif Fotdusf e xjomi cedl. Vjiz muh epf timm iwiszvjoph zua tez / fu. Emtu ceppif gsun e muv ug tiswist vjisi katv gus efnovvoph vjev O fotmoli netlt epf xup'v hiv "weddopevif" apvom muph visn tvafoit (5 ziest+) moli iwisz puuvsuqod/taqqminipv/qiqvofi O ati...
 
Epzupi jewi sidunnipfevoupt gus e fotdusf emvispevowi vjev otp'v up vji xulivesf vseop?

Jux ecuav e tiswis xovj zuas uxp gusan tugvxesi gus Dupvsum?

O jewip'v jef e gusan op e muph voni tu O fup'v lpux vji dassipv qmezist gus timg jutvif tugvxesi. Zuas jutvoph dunqepz qsucecmz jet tunivjoph gsii.

Emtu, O'n puv tasi og vjot ot atigam us puv vu zua. Ov muult moli Tduvv Efent, Vamto Heccesf, Fep Cuphopu epf uvjist esi up mudemt

O siemmz fup'v lpux nadj ecuav ov, juxiwis.
 
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